HOUSE OF PINQ
The Reinvention Studio for Women Ready to Choose Themselves.
Helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves, reinvent their lives from the inside out, and move like the decision
is already made.
THE MISSION
REINVENTION LIVES HERE
House of PINQ is more than a brand. It's a home for women choosing themselves on purpose.Through thoughtful resources, honest conversations, transformative experiences, and practical tools, we help high-achieving women reconnect with who they are, trust themselves more deeply, and move through life with greater clarity, confidence, and intention.Whether you're navigating a transition, raising your standards, rebuilding your confidence, or simply becoming more of yourself, you'll find support, inspiration, and a community that understands the journey.
THE COLLECTION
Thoughtfully Designed for Your Next Chapter.
Whether you're seeking clarity, rebuilding your confidence, creating new standards, or stepping into a season of reinvention, House of PINQ offers resources, experiences, and tools designed to support your journey every step of the way.From personalized guidance and transformative conversations to books, podcasts, and community experiences, each offering is created with one goal in mind: helping you become more of yourself.
PINQprint™
A personalized blueprint designed to help you gain clarity, identify aligned next steps, and move through your current season with confidence.
Still That Girl
A collection of essays, reflections, and honest conversations about reinvention, identity, self-trust, and choosing yourself—again and again.
Excuse Me, While I Choose Me
The premier podcast for women learning to stop second-guessing themselves and start moving like the decision is already made.
Crowned for Success
Transformational programs, experiences, and resources designed to help women elevate their standards, strengthen their self-trust,
and create lives that reflect who they're becoming.
Books, Journals & Resources
Practical tools for reflection, growth, goal-setting, and personal reinvention.
Events & Experiences
Curated opportunities for connection, conversation, and community both online and in person.
FOUNDER
Meet the Woman Behind House of PINQ.
the founder
Phadra Sharee ~ soft & savvy
If you had asked me ten years ago what my life would look like today, I can promise you I wouldn't have described this one.In 2016, I was broken, ambitious and scared.I was also three days away from getting married.Calling off that wedding became one of the hardest and, with hindsight, best decisions I've ever made for myself. At the time, though, it didn't feel brave. It felt embarrassing. It felt like failure. It felt like disappointing people and admitting that the life I was preparing to step into wasn't the life I wanted after all.What I couldn't have known then was how many times over the next decade I would have to ask myself some version of the same question:Does this life still fit me?The years that followed weren't a neat little healing journey.There was another relationship. More grief. The loss of my brother. And then a decision that changed the trajectory of my family's life: I packed up my two children and moved us from Illinois to Texas.Back home, I'd had what most people considered a good job with our local public transportation department. In Texas, I started again as a temp and worked my way up.Then the pandemic arrived and, seemingly overnight, my job description became Mom, teacher, lunch lady, IT department and whatever else a fourth grader and an eighth grader needed that day.So I made another decision.If I was going to be home teaching my children, I was finally going to finish something I'd wanted for myself too.I went back to school.By the time I returned to the workforce, another major relationship was nearing its end, and for the first time in my adult life, I eventually found myself truly single.No relationship waiting in the wings. No distraction from myself.Just me.And that's where some of the deeper work began.I finished my bachelor's degree and had my children walk across the stage with me because that degree belonged to all three of us. I started therapy, stopped, tried again and eventually stayed. I sent my daughter, my oldest, off to college. I enrolled in graduate school after swearing I was absolutely never going back. I moved my family into a home I'd specifically prayed for. I watched my son step into opportunities I hadn't had access to at his age.And somewhere in all of that, I started getting closer to my children and closer to myself.I kept creating, too.Entrepreneurship had always been somewhere in the background of my life. I was a writer first. Then there were T-shirts I designed and sold, résumé writing on the side, a self-love journal, books and eventually Still That Girl. There was Excuse Me While I Choose Me, born from something I've believed for years: women need permission to put themselves back on their own lists.Over time, those seemingly separate pieces began finding each other.My writing. My passion for women's empowerment. My own healing. My creativity. My obsession with ideas. My desire to help women get clear about what they want and give themselves permission to pursue it.That became House of PINQ.And as the House became clearer, so did my own philosophy about life.Because I've learned something over these ten years:I don't believe women should have to destroy their lives to create better ones.Sometimes a life really does need rebuilding. I've done that.But sometimes you don't need another dramatic transformation. You need clarity. A better decision. A boundary. A plan. A new opportunity. A little more money. A little more rest. A bouquet of flowers. A difficult conversation. Help from your village. The courage to admit something isn't working. Or permission to acknowledge that something actually is.My relationship with money has taught me that too.For years, I could make things work. As a solo mother, you learn how. You become resourceful. You find the program, the opportunity, the workaround, the extra stream of income. You learn how to make a way out of what sometimes looks like no way.But I've also learned there's a difference between always figuring it out and intentionally building something better.These days, I'm learning my finances at a level I once avoided. I'm looking at the whole picture, making changes and building toward becoming the wealthy woman I intend to be.I'm still learning.That's important to me.Because I don't want to build a body of work around pretending I've mastered life.I want to build one around practicing it well.That's why today I call myself Soft & Savvy Lifestyle Practitioner.Savvy is something life taught me early.How can I make this work?Softness took me longer.How can I make this feel better?At one point, I thought strength meant becoming harder.Today, after everything I've lived through, I'm the softest I've ever been.I'm still ambitious. Still resourceful. Still the woman who will figure it out. But I also know how to enjoy my home. Let people help me. Put flowers on the table. Dream bigger. Wait instead of forcing. Choose myself without apologizing. Want more without being ungrateful for what I already have.And perhaps my favorite evidence of who I've become isn't a degree, a business, a title or anything I've built.It's my relationship with my children.After all the moving, changing, growing and figuring things out together, we're closer than we've ever been.That makes me smile.So no, I don't have a perfect-life story to sell you.I'm still building mine.I practice living Soft & Savvy by asking two questions:How can this feel better?How can this work better?And through House of PINQ, my writing, my conversations and the tools I create, I invite other women to ask those questions about their own lives too.Because after a decade of learning what it means to choose myself, I've come to believe something deeply:A beautiful life doesn't happen all at once.We build it.On purpose.
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Clarity changes everything.These private strategy sessions are designed for women who are ready to stop second-guessing themselves and start moving forward with intention. Whether you're refining a book idea, elevating your professional brand, or navigating your next business move, you'll leave with clear direction and actionable next steps.
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